Sometimes, what holds us back isn't the world—it’s the whisper inside that says, “You can’t.”
These quiet, hidden narratives—called limiting beliefs—often masquerade as truth. They sound like “I’m not ready,” “I don’t have what it takes,” or “People like me don’t get to do that.” Paired with resistance—the emotional weight that shows up right when we’re about to grow—it can feel like standing at the edge of something beautiful, but being too scared to dive in.
But what if resistance isn’t the enemy?
What if it’s a signpost, your own lighthouse pointing toward the very thing your soul came here to do?
This gentle reflection is an invitation to meet those old stories with compassion, to re-frame them, and to choose differently. Not because you're broken—but because you're evolving. Because you're alive. And as we know live fish swim, splash and choose their current.
Ever felt like you wanted something deeply… but just couldn’t move forward?
Before we set sail toward any goal, it helps to check what’s the weighing anchor beneath the surface. These are our stories we tell ourselves—often unconsciously—that create a ceiling on what we believe we can do, be, or have.
Unpacking and letting go of that baggage…
Our thoughts (belief) become our
—>words —>Action—>Habits—> Us
Unhooking From What Holds You Back
YES. M O M!!
MIND OVER MATTER
ROYAL LIGHTHOUSE
As you are.’ says the universe. ‘After…’ you answer. ‘As you are.’ says the universe. ‘Before…’ you answer. ‘As you are.’ says the universe. ‘When…’ you answer. ‘As you are.’ says the universe. ‘How…’ you answer. ‘As you are.’ says the universe. ‘Why…’ you answer. ‘Because you are happening now. right now. right at this moment and your happening is beautiful. the thing that both keeps me alive and brings me to my knees. you don’t even know how breathtaking you are. as you are.’ says the universe through tears. — as you are | you are the prayer
- Nayyirah Waheed .
